I had the pleasure of interviewing Nancy Landrum, the visionary creator of the Millionaire Marriage Club. With a wealth of experience in relationship coaching and a deep understanding of the dynamics that make marriages thrive, Nancy has dedicated her career to helping couples build strong, lasting, and fulfilling relationships. Through the Millionaire Marriage Club, she offers invaluable insights and practical tools that empower couples to transform their marriages into enriching partnerships.

Join me as we delve into Nancy's journey, her inspirations, and the transformative impact of her work on countless relationships.

Posh Lifestyle & Beauty Blog: Can you elaborate on the core concept behind the Millionaire Marriage Club? What makes a marriage feel like "a million dollars"?

Nancy Landrum: The core concept of www.MillionaireMarriageClub.com is to learn how to communicate with respect even while disagreeing.  Respect is the foundation of enduring love.  This Is where lovers love for life, rather than killing their love with disrespect.

Posh Lifestyle & Beauty Blog: Who is your ideal client for the Millionaire Marriage Club program?

Nancy Landrum: My ideal clients are couples between 25-55 years of age who are dissatisfied with the quality of their relationship, AND are willing to do the work of learning better skills in order to enjoy the lasting, loving relationship that they want. Although when only one is willing to practice these new skills, the relationship can move in a positive direction. Part of the module explains the amazing transformation in “Won by One”.

Posh Lifestyle & Beauty Blog: What are the most common transformations you see couples experience through your coaching?

Nancy Landrum: The most common transformation is from frequent fighting or emotional distance to resolution of issues, reconnecting emotionally and increased intimacy.

Posh Lifestyle & Beauty Blog: What sets your approach to relationship coaching apart from others?

Nancy Landrum: Rather than mediate, I teach relationship skills so that couples own these skills and use them on their own.  Although we do often get into patterns passed on from families of origin, the main emphasis is on exchanging things that don’t work for things that give the results both persons long for and deserve to have.

Posh Lifestyle & Beauty Blog: What inspired you to create the Millionaire Marriage Club?

Nancy Landrum: As a child I longed for my parents to treat each other better.  I felt so much pain listening to them bicker and sometimes fight.  It became my passion to learn how to have a loving marriage myself and then teach others what I’d learned.  It took much longer than I hoped for and there were some painful lessons but my late husband Jim and I eventually learned the skills that gave us the elevated level of happiness we desired.  Then we began teaching others what we had learned.  That led to a book, private coaching and eventually to the creation of the online coaching course, Millionaire Marriage Club.

Posh Lifestyle & Beauty Blog: Has your own personal life journey influenced your approach to coaching? If so, how? 

Nancy Landrum: Definitely!  Jim and I didn’t want good advice.  We wanted to know HOW to never go to bed mad, and HOW to talk things out until we resolved them.  I teach the “HOW” that enables couples to fulfill their vow to love “‘til death do us part.”

Posh Lifestyle & Beauty Blog: Can you explain how your Master's in Spiritual Psychology informs your work with couples?  

Nancy Landrum: I believe that we are more than physical and mental bodies.  There is also a spiritual component.  Although I don’t push my personal faith on my clients, I honor the element of faith in everyone that adds an extra dimension to their quest for wholeness personally and relationally.

Posh Lifestyle & Beauty Blog: What are the most common challenges couples face today?

Nancy Landrum: The skepticism that a healthy, lasting marriage is even possible prevents many persons from being wholly committed to learning and practicing the skills that can produce that outcome.  There is also a casualness about moving in and out of relationships that creates a habit of “If it doesn’t work, leave,” rather than “If it isn’t working, find out why and fix it.”

Posh Lifestyle & Beauty Blog: What are some practical tips for improving communication in a relationship?

Nancy Landrum: There are several, but a few of the easy ones are:  1) Keep dating!  Go on a regular, fun, couple only date a minimum of twice/month.  2) Try harder to listen to your partner’s point of view than trying to convince him/ or her you’re right.  3) Recognize and subdue the inner, immature voice that says, “You treat me right and THEN I’ll be nice to you.”  That attitude is right off of the grade school playground.  It doesn’t work in an adult relationship.

Posh Lifestyle & Beauty Blog: How can couples keep their relationship happy and fulfilling over the long term?

Nancy Landrum: Never stop dating.  Never stop working to improve.  Accept the challenges that life and the relationship brings to you as opportunities for personal growth.  Never stop expressing gratitude for the little kindnesses that grease the wheels of a great marriage!

Posh Lifestyle & Beauty Blog: What is one piece of actionable advice you can give to listeners who want to improve their relationships?

Nancy Landrum: Exchange criticism for gratitude.  ALWAYS.

Posh Lifestyle & Beauty Blog: Are there any resources (books, programs, etc.) you recommend for people interested in learning more about your approach?

The book Jim and I wrote together about the recovery of our love is “How to Stay Married & Love It! Solving the Puzzle of a SoulMate Marriage.”

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